[P2P-F] "besoins relationnels" ? - 2 min video

Wed Oct 12 21:22:44 CEST 2011

thanks for the translation!

On Mon, Oct 10, 2011 at 7:31 PM, hellekin <hellekin at cepheide.org> wrote:

> Excerpts from Michel Bauwens's message of Mon Oct 10 04:49:36 +0000 2011:
> > thanks Dante, this is a great summary of how relational lack is related
> to
> > violence,
> >
> > for those who know french, this short video is recommended!
> >
> > On Mon, Oct 10, 2011 at 12:56 AM, Dante-Gabryell Monson <
> > dante.monson at gmail.com> wrote:
> >
> > >
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=zNa1GJVkTN0#t=34s
> >
> *** Here is the substance, for those who can't speak French:
>
> I'm 70 years old, and I feel indignant that people ignore they have
> relational needs.  I ask: do you know your relational need?  People
> usually don't know what to answer.  They end up talking about their need
> to be loved.  As if that need would cover all other relational needs.
>
> Let me give you 5:
>
> (1) need to tell oneself, with one's own words;
>
> (2) need to be heard: sometimes you talk about something on one level,
> and people hear you on another level, they're not 'on the same
> wavelength';
>
> (3) need to be recognized, as you are
>
> (4) need to be (well-)appreciated, within your (environment);
>
> (5) need to dream, that the next day will be better than tomorrow, and
> that tomorrow will be better than today.
>
> And that is one of the strongest drives, when one of these relational
> needs isn't fulfilled, I feel bound to act, to act violently... Let me
> remind you that violence is a language.
>
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