I am attracted to Older Overweight Men Main Email: [email protected] I thought I would drop you a quite note: I like nice and genuine guys, I am the same. I dont sleep around, and havnt been with a guy in over a year now. I try to be very selective... not so much on appearance, although I do go for a very heavy set man in general over thin guy, but in personality, basically, there are a lot of spiteful people out there, and people who just use and take advantage of others. My attraction to older men, is something that is sometimes confusing to me. I was molested a couple times when I was younger, by older guys of course, who needed to get hard, of course... so while I am searching for a more meaningful relationship (a best friend, lover, love) with a guy closer to my own age, I do still find older men to be attractive, and I do have this desire inside of me to help an older man get an erection and cum, a man who has been having trouble getting off. So, I can either hate myself for that, for wanting to help out an older guy, or I can accept it and deal with it, and, thats the decision I made a few years ago... that I would like to explore that part of my sexuality, understand myself more, maybe that will be a part of me forever, but someday, I will be older myself, and this will all fit. I have been with a few women in my early 20's... enough to know that something didnt fit... wasnt right... and enough men in my mid 20's to know that I am Gay. There is an emotional connection as well as a physical one when I get together wiht a guy. I know that I am attracted to a heavy set man, overweight, very overweight in fact... and that is just fine with me. I can justify that attraction in a lot of ways, for instance in the "straight" world, there is BBW (big beautiful women), guys who find overweight females to be more attractive than thin. So, the "boyfriend" I am looking for, the more serious relationship, will most probably be with a very overweight guy closer to my own age. I am looking to get together with a "nice" older man in need of a friend to help him get an erection again, and cum. I am not certain about the future, maybe a good older guy as a casual friend, with an occational get together, would work out. That is what I would ideally like to have, coupled with a more serious relationship with a man who is understanding and accepting of who I really am... an honest, sincere, intelligent, compassionate, and sometimes too deep 35 year old Gay Man. But, in reality, a nice time, an evening, with an older man who needed to get off, who appreciated my help, would be great, and that is what I am looking to have. Sexually, I am not into anal sex at all. As far as "reciprocation"... I would be satisfied with a date with a guy who enjoyed having me service him. Enjoyed the evening together, who didnt put me down for wanting to help, and made me feel good afterwards for doing it. If you would like to touch or stroke my penis as well, I am open to that, but thats not required. I would like to masturbate, stroke my penis, after spending time to get you hard, while stroking yours. That to me, is very enjoyable and satisfying. I also understand that this is one VERY screwed up world. People get bent all out of shape about being with a guy or a girl or with penis size or sin or any of these negative things that get drilled into us all along the way. I dont want to be casted as a "sinner" or as a "bad guy" for wanting to have a nice time with another guy. I dont see any harm in that, I see the harm in what is flowing out of that church, and what I see happening in the world, hatred, and a lot of sad people. I am staying in Socorro New Mexico, doing some computer work at the University here. I have a nice hotel room and am stationed here for a little while longer, but plan to stay in this state working for a while, so if it works that way, a friendship would be a possibility. I do currently smoke cigarettes, and enjoy having a couple beers before having sex with someone, to help relax. I am open minded to marijuana as well. I dont find it to be a requirement although I do find it very calming and very nice for sex. I would enjoy having a couple drinks, helping you undress, laying in bed together. I like to rub a big belly, feel it all over, hold it. I dont care about penis size, how big or how small. I am about 5" when hard, cut, so not very hung, but whether you are very hung or very small, it doesnt matter to me other than I would enjoy helping an older man feel better. I enjoy big balls on a man, huge balls even, holding them gently, massaging them, but they dont have to be big. I like a clean smelling man. I am not into "man" smells. I like to spend a time being gentle, touching and feeling a penis, and sucking you. Helping your cock grow. I also enjoy stroking a nice cock after I get it growing, and using lotion all over it. Letting it slide in my hands and helping an older man get harder. I dont like taking cum in my mouth, but enjoy sucking a guy first to help him get hard then stroking him nice to finally get him to cum real good. If you havnt cum in a while, I dont have a probl em if you have a really huge load. I would want you to cum all you can to feel better. I am open to spending the night together, maybe playing together sexually a couple times, watching TV, maybe ordering a pizza later on. But just spending a couple hours together I would find enjoyable as well. I have posted a few messages before on craigslist, but, rarely get any response, and when I do, the guy either wants to use me as some "cock sucker" or lies about everything or doesnt really want to actually get together at all, at least thats how it seems. So, thats why I put some effort into writing this letter now, you seem to be genuine and you do fit what I find to be attractive, the kind of man I find to be a turn on physically, older and overweight needing some help getting hard and cumming. So, I will check my email in the morning, and throughout the day, and am looking forward to chatting more, talking on the phone a little bit first if you like, and I am interested in getting together, here in Socorro. I am open tomorrow or another day that would work out for you. Thanks again for your response, Scott Kennedy What IS a BEAR anyways? Bears exist in the "Straight" and the "Bi" and the "Gay" Worlds. Over time, if you Look, and not Hate, you will learn this for yourself. Concentrate on being who YOU are, your category is "YOU". But, what is all this hoopla about BEARS? well, often times, a Bear is a word people use instead of that dreaded "G" word. You know... "GAY". Sort of like the B word, "Bi". See, in this messed up world, the word "Gay" is often used as a putdown, when in Reality the Word means HAPPY. Frankly, it takes a REAL man to put a Rainbow sticker on your car and announce to the world that YOU are "Gay". Or how about putting a Rainbow Flag in your Front Yard...! Not too many "Straight Men" would ever have the "Balls" to do that. Now, not everyone has to have THAT level of Pride. However, dealing with your emotions? TAKES A MAN. A coward runs away and calls names instead. But, BEAR? Well, typically, a Bear is a hairier than usual Guy. Often heavy set but not always. A Big Hairy Bear. But, Beyond t he Fur, a Bear is all in the Attitude. "Bears" are usually very emotional, but guarded with their emotions. "Bears" often dont always show their emotions, but have strong emotions deep inside. Basically, "Bears" like to be treated Good and appreciated, in return, you FEEL more of their Love than they show through acts, and sometimes, BEARS! have a temper too. NOT mean people, just "tough guys" with a big heart, a lot of Fur, and sometimes, a Big Tough Guy Belly too. So, if you think you might fit this cute nickname of a Man, a "Bear", then, use it, but instead, why not try to be... "YOU"! Anti Fat Surgery? People, research and talk to others before having some DOCTOR cut up your insides to by-pass your intestines to starve your body of nutrients to force you to lose fat, there are some horror stories out there! Why not Love Yourself? PLENTY right here who PREFER a heavy man. Research Chinese Medicine and Alternative Cures, and guess what causes Disease: Negative Energy. As in, if you Hate Yourself you MAKE yourself SICK! Doesnt that make Sense. See, it matters what you think, thought is so very close to Prayer. It MATTERS how you think about OTHER people. I suggest a little walking each day to keep your body running better, and a WHOLE LOT OF LOVE to keep your mind and soul "happy". You would be surprised at what Love and Knowledge can Do. Love Yourself, and, Realize, Doctors are CASH COWS. Doctors are DRUG DEALERS. and DOCTORS see your fat belly as an opportunity to ring in the BUCKS. President Yahweh's Data Site... click here, you need a Yahoo name to run the Web Group, its free and takes only 30 seconds to create a name... then, you can JOIN to get at the database full of high blood pressure alternatives... the Doctor Nightmares... File Downloads to protect your computer... all the New Government Order Information: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GayFatMenInLOVE I am the Guy with the Red Shirt or the Water Bottle and the White Sweater. The other guys are pictures from the Internet, of overweight older guys... that I find to Be VERY sexy... and would LOVE to get together with a guy who Looks like this (a nice good guy of course): --------------------------------- Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less.
