Othly? Why are there no outbreaks of individual character? How is it
that we seem dovetailed into each other, as if we formed a homogeneous
mass? What is the influence which keeps up the weak and keeps down the
strong, and spreads itself like oil upon the boiling sea of human
passion? We have a notion of our own, that all this is the work of an
individual of the female sex; and, indeed, even the most unconscious and
unreflecting would appear to assign to that individual her true position
and authority, in naming her the Woman of the World. Society could never
exist in a state of civilisation without the woman of the world. The man
of the world has his own department, his own _metier_; but She it is who
keeps up the general equilibrium. She is a calm, quiet, lady-like
person, not obtrusive, and not easily put out of the way. You do not
know by external observation that she is in the room; you feel it
instinctively. The atmosphere she brings with her is peculiar, you
cannot tell how. It is neither warm nor chill, neither moist nor dry;
but it is repressive. You do not move in it with natural freedom,
although you feel nothing that could be called _gene_. Her manner is
generally sweet, sometimes even caressing, and